Both. Technically not my boss, but reports go through them anyway, and while I don't mind gossiping some, I'm not going to go around getting into everyone's business. For example, I took a few days off recently, because I needed to take care of myself. [she remembers what Dante said about his own eyes, so she reaches up to tap the side of her glasses, indicating hers. anyone might need time to themselves if their eyes suddenly changed.] And they put me through the third degree on whether I was really out sick or whether I was lying. You can see why I might not want to dance with them.