"Exactly, and I for one do not wish to question the person that I am and have grown to be. It would be unseemly, and I am not entirely sure I would wish to be this person I am seeing." She shook her head. "So, I think that we agree here. As difficult as it can be at times, neither of us wishes to be someone we are not, and so we do not want to stress too much."

She sighed and pinched the bridge of her nose. "I admit, though, that it is easier said than done."