Then you have to trust that someone else will stop you if you lose control again.

[ it may be a childish answer, but it's the only one that oda can come up with. after all, the children and his dreams for the future were the ones that stopped him for god knows how long.

he's certain that, in the end, it failed. but maybe she can do better than his past self. ]

Someone or something you can believe in...that will anchor you to reality more than anything else.