[He nods with sadness, understanding quite well about just relying on yourself and not trusting anyone else.]

Then lets go. I can't promise I can help with everything...but, I do want to be your friend, a friend that can help with some of this stuff.

If he loves you so much, don't you think he would want to help you carry these sins? And let yourself heal from them? Cause, it seems to me that you don't HAVE to do this job alone with him around.